The World Health Organization reports that, as of 2022, 2.5 billion adults around the globe were overweight. And 890 million adults worldwide were living with obesity. But despite the fact that it’s so common to be plus-sized, fatphobia still seems to be running rampant in many societies.
To start a conversation about this, one woman recently invited fellow overweight individuals to share the worst aspects of being fat on TikTok. The comments were flooded with over a thousand open and honest replies, so we’ve gathered the most popular ones down below. Whether you’re plus-sized or not, we hope you can approach this topic with empathy. And be sure to upvote the responses that hit home for you.
feeling always dirty?? and feeling that I waste nice hygiene products or pricey cosmetics cuz I don’t deserve them anyway, cuz they are not meant for me? maybe it’s weird idk
when i was fat the most sad thing that i thought was when i watched a show and there was the main couple, and then i thought “i will never have that kind of love i’m disgusting, i will never get married, i will never have the first kiss, or child”
not having any childhood memories, no pictures taken throughout your childhood and teens. I dont have any pictures of myself from when I was younger.
Everytime someone looks at me/ or even laughs in a vicinity near me, I think they are making fun of me or thinking ill of me. It could be anyone and I always think they are thinking im a big monster.
people treating your friends so much differently than they treat you. it genuinely feels like nobody takes me seriously because my weight is the first thing they see
Side profile, feeling, the way others treat you, the way you don’t ever wanna get dressed and Ik this is a common experience but wanting to stay in hoodies, sweats. Pictures of yourself and realizing
Desperately wanting to lose weight but being crippled with fear, about what you will look like afterwards and not wanting people to perceive me while exercising.
what hurts me the most growing up fat and just being fat is comments made by people I thought genuinely loved me. Like family members etc.. like don’t you love me?? Don’t you think I’m pretty?
the world never lets you forget it,even if they don’t have bad intentions,they will mention it
‘Come on let’s dress up all nice’ makes me feel like a fraud
Not being normal in other peoples eyes. Like my weight is the biggest (no pun intended) factor in deciding who I am as a person
Being gaslit by medical professionals and being blamed for my weight when it’s not physically possible for me to be eating enough to weigh DOUBLE what I should for my tiny height of 5’2”. It wasn’t until I found a nurse who looked like me in terms of height and build to get the help I needed to start losing weight again once I was put on the right meds. I wasn’t being lazy and overeating. My hormones were so out of whack that my body wasn’t cooperating and I was on the wrong meds. It’s sad how much women esp plus size women are mistreated medically. We are more at risk for neglect.
Honestly? Feeling like a literal bigger target when out and about, especially at night. I am not the ‘norm’ and it draws attention I’d rather not have late at night!
I hate my (non)jaw, and my double chin. But at the same time i cant change who i am. Thats a struggle
having “friends” who will post the ugliest pictures of you where it’s very obvious you’re the biggest one in the group.
literally avoiding every single mirror in my life to the point where when I do catch my reflection, I see a total stranger
remembering how much nicer people were during the short time when i wasn’t
knowing nobody thinks i’m pretty, feeling ashamed when im out, think everyone is speaking about me, apron tummy that won’t go, weight loss but can’t tell bc of loose skin. it’s hell.
never knowing how is to just take less space. to roll up and be a little ball. i imagne it to be more cozy sensory wise. but maybe im just romanticizing what i never got to experience
Feeling Like a bird in a Cage. all the other pretty birds flying around you, but you’r stuck there, Nobody can See how pretty you would fly too… soon i’m there too, Just keep going.
always feeling like i look worse while doing literally everything, always feeling like im huge and like im taking too much space wherever i am and whatever i do
Just the consistent and constant nagging thought about it. Is my stomach sitting funny in these jeans? Is my back showing below my top? Is my double chin super noticeable? It’s torture
not the worst, but bittersweet; being able to love and adore my own features on anyone, as long as it’s not me
feeling like i’m not reaching my full potential, like i could always look better despite how much weight i lose
It’s never quiet in my head. I’m always watching for someone laughing, staring, judging. I can’t just *be* somewhere because I’m always looking for it
feeling like I’ll never be skinny and pretty enough because there’s always someone thinner and just feeling disgusting and unlovable
that the only thing that is easy is eating
My mom who is also fat told me that as a fat person you will feel like you cannot have any other flaws and that is so damn true!
Being told I’m unhealthy. I actually eat pretty healthy, walk my dog for an hour a day minimum, go to the gym and do a martial art yet I’m still fat
not being able to wear the clothes i want- half because they never look right on me and half because i rarely find cute things in my size
Unsolicited comments about my weight from my dad crush me. I feel like he’ll never accept me or truly love me because of my weight.
When people give you fake compliments and actually mean no harm but they’ll all of a sudden be nicer and compliment you in a way you know it’s not true and there only saying it cuz they feel like you’re insecure, and want to make you feel pretty but you know it’s just to be nice even though they mean no harm, that’s worse than getting fat shamed for some reason
Calling myself the most vile things since I was a little girl just so I could prepare myself for what others called me so I wouldn’t be offended by it.
Knowing people will never say they think youre beautiful. You’re always just “cute” or have a pretty face.
Not even wanting to put on makeup because I have no face structure anymore and nice outfits feel pointless because I have no shape
When people scoot around the topic and it’s SO OBVIOUS that they are trying to avoid any topics abt looks or weight
losing weight but its never enough to make me look different
Feeling intimidated by boys, not being able to dress ‘cozy cute’ just look ragged. Swimsuit
the only clothes that fit and look good are astronomically expensive
Skinny people talking about “how fat they are” right infront of you to bait you into giving them complements. Also being treated less than human
Hearing my smaller friends talk about how fat they are knowing they are like half my size
Having people insinuating that my face doesn’t match my body
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