Back in my 20s, I was one of the first generation plus-size models in the UK. I loved it. It felt liberating as a curvier woman to wear beautiful clothes and try on different styles. I modelled for fashion magazines, clothing companies and had fun sashaying down the catwalks at fashion shows.
This was a time when plus-size clothes were only just starting to get the recognition they deserved, and it felt fabulous to be a part of this positive change.
Read more: Interview with a Plus-Size Fashion Designer – Her Styling Tips for Curvy Mature Women.
These days, I still love clothes and adore creating a style that is uniquely mine and that I feel good in. For me, I love to wear an eclectic range of boho inspired clothing. I would describe my style as bohemian queen, mixed with a little romance and a touch of gypsy.
Boho inspired clothing conjures up images of being a free spirit, flowing fabrics, brightly coloured florals, paisley prints, mixing patterns, floaty skirts, flared jeans, tassels, eclectic jewellery, layers, fringes and so much more. There is no right or wrong way to create your own unique boho inspired look – only your way.

Ditch the “Rules” of the Past!
For me, the clothes that I wear strongly reflect the way I think and the things that I love. My style goes against much of what I was told how I should dress as an older woman. It was unthinkable that I should have long hair and even worse that I have allowed it to go grey.
My mother visited the hairdresser weekly to have a shampoo and set and always kept her hair dyed a rich brown colour. There were many rules about clothes and how I should dress appropriately for my age, none of which I follow as a 63-year-old woman. As a body confidence expert and age empowerment coach, this has been liberating for me personally.
Creating your own sense of style whether it’s a boho inspired look or something else, means that you follow what is right for you. It’s about ditching the old “rules” or opinions about how you should look and showing up as your authentic self. Clothes can help us change the way we feel and think about ourselves.
For example, I had never worn a leopard print before as someone once told me it was an old-style look. However, once I experimented with a few leopard print jackets, I fell in love with one that I love, and it makes me feel really “rocky!”

Read more: How to Rock Your Own Fabulous Authentic Style at 60 and Beyond.
How to Create Your Own Authentic Boho Style
Remember that style is about a feeling. It’s about creating a look that represents who you are, what you love and what makes you feel how you desire to feel. It takes time and some delicious experimentation to discover what really works for you. However, that is half the fun!
Your sense of style is created from what is meaningful for you. Style has nothing to do with fashion, although you may want to borrow ideas from the fashion world if they align with you. The following questions help to create a picture of how you can incorporate your beliefs, loves, passions and dreams into developing a signature look that you always feel “at home” in. Put some time aside to reflect on these questions.
Enjoy Answering These Questions:
- What are your five most favourite colours?
- What are your top five values in life?
- Is there a decade that you resonate with? Perhaps it’s the 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s or maybe it’s now? It may be a combination of decades. Write down or get pictures of the styles and clothes that you love of this time.
- Name your three top feelings of how you desire to feel every day of your life.
- What textures do you love? For example, cotton, silk, velvet, chiffon, organza, etc.
- How do you want your clothes to make you feel?
- Are there causes or ethical considerations that you need to include when creating your sense of authentic style? For example, are you vegan or vegetarian? Are you interested in sustainable and ethically produced clothing?
At the end of this exercise, you should have the beginnings of your own style template. For example, in my own signature style, my favourite colours are pink, lilac, gold and turquoise. I want my clothes to make me feel free, elegant, flowing and loved. I adore the boho look of the 60s and 70s and love fabrics such as taffeta, silk, cotton and chiffon.


The next step is to put all of your ideas into a vision book. Cut out photos from magazines of the styles you love. Search on the internet for ideas of how to put your boho look together.
I have created some examples of my own clothes to give you some other ideas.
Read more: 10 Best Boho Dresses for Women Over 50.
Evolve Your Style Organically
Let your own style evolve and grow organically. You may simply want to start with a lovely scarf or piece of jewellery that makes you feel gorgeous. Remember, this is about honouring who you are and what you love.
Sometimes, this can take time. I know that it did with me. From someone who always used to wear black, just incorporating more bright colours into my wardrobe felt uncomfortable at first. However, I now enjoy how vibrant these colours make me feel, and whilst I may still wear black, it’s not the only option I have.


Style That Lasts
A wonderful thing about creating your own boho style is that it is timeless. I still have clothes that I wore over 20 years ago, and they always make me feel happy and free. When I do buy new clothes, some of my favourite shops are Love Forever (an online boho style shop), local vintage charity shops, Free People, Lotus-traders and boohoo.com. However, the key is really to just keep your eyes open for anything that inspires you – or make your own.


Have fun creating your own boho chic inspired look. Sometimes it can feel as if we have become invisible to the outside world as we grow older. However, it’s really about being visible to ourselves first that is the key.
Take up your space, wear clothes that make you feel fabulous, open your arms wide to endless possibilities, shine your light and keep becoming MORE of who you authentically are!
Start with the Essentials
If you’re feeling inspired but aren’t quite sure where to begin, don’t worry – boho style is something you can ease into. You don’t need to overhaul your whole wardrobe overnight. Instead, start with a few key pieces that speak to your spirit and style. Here are some essential items that can help you create your own boho look with ease and confidence:
- Flowy Maxi Dresses and Skirts
Feminine, forgiving, and comfortable. Look for soft fabrics and relaxed shapes.
Where to look: - Peasant Blouses and Embroidered Tops
Loose blouses with embroidery or lace create a romantic, vintage-inspired look.
Where to look: - Layered Jewelry
Mix and match beads, metals, and natural stones. Don’t worry about everything matching—just go with what feels good.
Where to look: - Tassels, Fringe, and Crochet Accents
Details like these give your outfit a relaxed, free-spirited vibe.
Where to look: - Kimonos and Lightweight Dusters
Throw one over jeans and a tank or a simple dress to add movement and texture.
Where to look: - Flared Jeans or Wide-Leg Trousers
Comfortable, flattering, and endlessly wearable. Look for soft denim or lightweight woven fabrics.
Where to look: - Hats, Headwraps, or Turbans
A wide-brimmed hat or colorful scarf adds character and can be a great bad-hair-day solution too.
Where to look: - Ankle Boots or Sandals with Details
Look for styles with fringe, braiding, or cut-out patterns. Comfort is key, so prioritize cushioned soles and support.
Where to look: - Patterned Scarves and Shawls
These are incredibly versatile—drape them, tie them, belt them, or wrap them around your hair.
Where to look: - Statement Bags
Look for embroidery, beading, or soft, worn leather. A good boho bag should look like it has stories to tell.
Where to look:
Start small – maybe with a fringed shawl, a beautiful turquoise ring, or a patterned kimono – and see how it makes you feel. Let your wardrobe grow slowly and naturally, reflecting what you love, who you are, and how you want to feel every day.
Do join me on Instagram for more inspired chat, ideas and feeling fabulous! I would love your company. Or visit my website at www.astridlonghurst.com
Read more: Boho Chic After 50 – Looks for Free-Spirited Women.
Editor’s Note: Article updated by Sixty and Me.
Let’s Have a Conversation:
What’s your style? What clothes always make you feel radiant, beautiful and comfortable in your skin?